When is it best to conform to the wishes or rules of others? What problems are avoided when people conform? What new problems does conformity create?

While in my opinion I think that it would be hard to conform the wishes of other and their rules. The reason why I Think This is because If you conform the rules or wishes of another person then someone else might not agree or might want her/his rules or wish to be conformed to. Problems that are avoided if you do confirm their rules or wishes are that they will not rebel against you, or the society. But my conforming someone else wishes and rules you can create a society where their is no rules or boundaries  meaning everyone will be able to do anything and everything if you conform their wishes. If you do it to one then you will have to do it to all or there will be serious problem.  Another thing that would be effected would be the authority the society would have no authority if its conforming everyone wishes. You can conform everyone wishes or rules because, they might effect the result in a negative way they might be the only ones benefiting from them and that will create again a disaster almost the society because you will have the ones that dont agree. So I dont think that conforming everyone rule or wishes would be right in a society, because in order for it to work everyone would have to be in the same page with the guy who is making the wish. In a way you might think that is good but in the long run conforming ever ones wishes and rules will destroy the society in the long run.